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Empower Her Insights, Essay Three

Misallocated Authority: The Quiet Reason Senior Women Stay Stretched

By Muna Hamood 8 minutes

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Misallocated Authority

The quiet reason senior women stay stretched

The pattern that hides in plain sight

A senior woman walks into a meeting carrying things that, on paper, are not hers to carry. The decision waiting for sign-off belongs one level up. The execution detail belongs one level down. Somehow both have ended up on her agenda.

This is rarely the result of a single error. There was no point at which someone formally added these things to her remit. The drift happened quietly, over months and years, through small handovers that each seemed sensible at the time.

From the outside, it reads as capability. She is the one who can handle the complexity, who can resolve the ambiguity, who can hold the strategic and the operational at once. From the inside, it is harder to describe. There is a sense of being stretched, of carrying more than the role formally calls for, of being unable to point clearly at what should be different.

The pattern is not unusual. It is also not personal. It is a structural drift that produces the same outcome across very different organisations and very different individuals. The labour, the decisions, and the emotional weight have ended up in the wrong place.

This is misallocated authority. And until it is named structurally, it tends to keep being treated as a personal stamina problem.

Until it is named structurally, misallocated authority keeps being treated as a personal stamina problem.

How authority drifts, quietly

Authority is not just the right to decide. It is the bundle of decision rights, ownership, accountability, and emotional labour that sits with a given role. When any of these drift away from where they should sit, the role still functions, but it stops functioning cleanly.

The drifts that stack:

  • An executive does not want to make an uncomfortable call, so the decision is delegated downward without the matching authority to enforce it.
  • A peer is overloaded, so you absorb a piece of cross-functional ownership that should have been negotiated formally.
  • A direct report is struggling emotionally, so you absorb the emotional regulation work that should have sat with their line manager or with HR.
  • A senior leader avoids conflict in a meeting, so you become the person who follows up offline to repair the relationship.
  • A new initiative needs an owner, so it lands on your desk without a formal change to your remit, your headcount, or your scope.

Each of these drifts is small. Each looks like teamwork, or initiative, or simply being the kind of person who steps up. Stacked over time, they produce a particular distortion. The role you are formally being paid to do is no longer the role you are actually doing.

This is the quiet engine of being stretched. Not too much work in the conventional sense, but too much of the wrong work. The volume is high precisely because so much of it does not belong there.

The volume is high precisely because so much of it does not belong there.

[INSERT INFOGRAPHIC: Where authority lands when it drifts]

Why this is structural, not personal

When misallocated authority is discussed at all, it is usually framed as a personal pattern. The advice runs along familiar lines. Set firmer boundaries. Push back more in meetings. Be clearer about your remit. Learn to say no.

This framing is incomplete. It locates the problem inside the woman who is stretched, as if her drift into carrying everything is a failure of personal discipline. In most cases, the pattern is actually the predictable result of how authority flows around her.

Authority does not stay where it is written down. It flows toward competence, toward reliability, toward whoever is most willing to absorb ambiguity. When a senior woman is competent, reliable, and capable of holding complexity, the system will route to her by default. This is not her doing it to herself. It is the system selecting her, repeatedly, because she is structurally efficient to route to.

Authority does not stay where it is written down. It flows toward competence, reliability, and whoever is most willing to absorb ambiguity.

This distinction matters because it changes what recalibration requires. If the pattern were personal, the fix would be personal: hold the line, push back, decline more. The fix would sit entirely with the individual.

Because the pattern is structural, the fix is too. The work is to make the misallocation visible, name it accurately, and either return things to where they should sit or make the expanded scope formal. The fix is not about doing less. It is about ending the silent accumulation of things that were never meant to be yours.

The system is not asking too much of you by accident. It is routing to you because you are structurally efficient to route to.

What the misallocation quietly costs

The cost of carrying misallocated authority does not show up cleanly. Output remains high, often exceptionally high, because misallocation rewards the people it lands on with reputation, visibility, and influence. By every external measure, the role is being performed at a level above grade.

The cost shows up elsewhere, in patterns that are rarely connected back to the underlying drift.

What the misallocation quietly takes:

  • Clarity of role. The formal job description and the actual job diverge. You can no longer accurately describe what you do without reaching for compound phrases that hint at the real scope.
  • Negotiating position. Because the expanded scope is informal, it does not appear in compensation conversations, promotion frameworks, or workload negotiations. You carry it without it counting.
  • Strategic time. The fragments of decisions, emotional labour, and operational detail that should sit elsewhere fill the cognitive space that would otherwise hold strategy. You become responsive rather than directive.
  • Internal authority. The longer the drift continues, the harder it becomes to say no without it being read as a personality change. You have effectively trained the system to expect you to absorb.

The last cost is the most consequential. Once misallocation has been silently accepted for long enough, returning things to where they should sit looks, from the outside, like withdrawal. The structural problem has become indistinguishable from a character shift.

You carry the expanded scope without it counting. The work is invisible to every framework that matters.

What recalibration looks like

Recalibrating misallocated authority is not about handing things back abruptly. The work is methodical. It involves making the drift visible, sorting it cleanly, and then deciding what is returned, what is renegotiated, and what is formalised.

Three moves, in sequence:

  • Audit what has drifted. Write down the decisions, ownership, accountability, and emotional labour you are currently carrying. For each one, name where it should structurally sit.
  • Sort into three categories. What belongs elsewhere and should be returned. What belongs to you informally and should be formalised, with the scope, authority, or compensation to match. What you genuinely want to carry, on your terms.
  • Move one category at a time. Recalibration done all at once reads as withdrawal. Recalibration done methodically, item by item, reads as clarity.

The first time you decline to absorb something that has drifted toward you, the system will register it as unusual. The second time, it will adjust. The third time, the routing pattern itself begins to shift.

Recalibration done all at once reads as withdrawal. Recalibration done methodically reads as clarity.

Signs authority has drifted toward you:

  • You routinely make decisions in meetings that, by remit, belong to someone more senior.
  • Cross-functional work flows to you informally rather than being negotiated at the right level.
  • You can describe what you do, but not in a single sentence that matches your job title.

A small question to sit with

Most senior women, when they audit what they carry, are not surprised by the volume. They are surprised by the misallocation. The list is not full of things they chose. It is full of things that ended up with them by default.

This recognition tends to shift something. The strain stops feeling like personal capacity reaching its limit, and starts feeling like a structural pattern that has a shape, an explanation, and therefore a way through.

The question worth sitting with is not whether you can carry more. You demonstrably can. The question is whether the things you are carrying are the things the role was ever supposed to hold.

Asking what the role was supposed to hold is a different conversation from asking how to carry more of what has drifted toward you. And it is the one that tends to change things.


If you recognise this pattern in your own work, the Over-Functioning Score is a short diagnostic that maps where the strain is concentrated. You can take it at muna-v6qaihtk.scoreapp.com.